Funeral Details

Deborah “Dee” Byczkowski

SERVICE INFORMATION

Celebration of Life

Midtown Funeral Home
3918 West Irving Park Road
Chicago, Illinois 60618
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Saturday, July 11, 2026 at 11:00 AM





OBITUARY

Deborah Byczkowski, 37, passed away unexpectedly on June 22, 2026 . Though her life was cut far too short, the love, joy, and light she shared continue to live on in the countless lives she touched.

A proud Chicago native, Deborah dedicated her life to dance—not simply as an art form, but as a way of building confidence, connection, and community. She earned her bachelor's degree in Dance Pedagogy from Columbia College Chicago and went on to teach at dance studios throughout the city, as well as in Chicago Public Schools, where she inspired countless young dancers with her warmth, creativity, and unwavering belief in their potential.

In 2017, Deborah founded VOLTA Performing Arts in Logan Square, pouring her heart, sweat, strength, and boundless imagination into creating something far greater than a dance studio. Through what many lovingly called "Miss Dee Magic," she built a home where dancers of every age, identity, body, and experience level were welcomed exactly as they were. Deborah believed that every body is a dance body. She empowered her students to express themselves authentically, embrace body positivity, and discover joy in movement while emphasizing healthy, injury-free dance practices rooted in anatomy, kinesiology, and physics.

Her generosity extended well beyond her own students. Deborah opened VOLTA's doors to Chicago's artistic community by offering affordable rehearsal and performance space to independent artists, teachers, and creators developing new work. She believed that art flourishes when people support one another, and she lived that belief every day.

A lifelong student herself, Deborah was always learning, exploring, and refining her craft. She embraced new adventures with infectious enthusiasm—from aerial silks to fire spinning, hula hooping, and countless other creative pursuits. She participated in beloved Chicago traditions, including LUMA8's Arts in the Dark Parade since its inception, the Logan Square Arts Festival, Daybreaker gatherings, and Full Moon Jams. To Deborah, the world was her dance floor.

She was filled with hope, mischievous fun, and was so selfless. She found wonder in life's smallest moments. She delighted in bubbles, glitter, sidewalk chalk, giant beach balls, music festivals, bicycles, scooters, and long hugs. She loved traveling to Brazil to spend time with family, documenting life through home videos, collecting meaningful keepsakes, trying new experiences, savoring oysters, and expressing herself through vibrant hair, makeup, jewelry, and clothing. She had an irrepressibly playful spirit, known for giving unforgettable hugs, and bringing laughter into every room she entered. You knew she really liked you if she licked you.

Deborah was deeply proud to be a member of the queer community and cherished building meaningful relationships with her partners. She had a rare gift for making people feel seen, accepted, and celebrated. She encouraged everyone she met to live unapologetically as themselves, always searching for the good in others and reminding them that they were worthy exactly as they were.

She was a beloved daughter, sister, aunt, teacher, mentor, role model, and friend. Her light reached far beyond the dance studio and lives on in every student she encouraged, every artist she supported, every tradition she began, and every person she inspired to dance like nobody was watching.

Deborah is survived by her loving parents, Vania Bandelli and Andre Byczkowski; her sister, Clara Byczkowski; her brother-in-law, Michael Podgurski; and her newborn niece, Isadora Byczkowski Podgurski, whose arrival brought her immeasurable joy. In the two days before her unexpected passing, Deborah’s company was treasured with her sister, brother-in-law, and new for this world niece, and savoring the transition from spring to summer together. She also leaves behind an extraordinary chosen family, countless beloved friends, devoted students, and the vibrant community she created through VOLTA Performing Arts.

Though her time was far too short, Deborah filled it with extraordinary love, joy, creativity, and compassion. Her legacy lives on in every person she empowered to take up space, move freely, love themselves fully, and find magic in the simple act of dancing.

Celebration of Life will be Saturday July 11, 2026 starting at 11AM at Midtown Funeral Home and Cremation Options, 3918 W. Irving Park Rd., Chicago.

In lieu of flowers, the family will announce where memorial contributions may be made to at a later date.

To attend the funeral live stream, please visit our website. Arrangements by Midtown Funeral Home and Cremation Options, 773.654.3744, www.midtownfunerals.com


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Thank you, dear Miss Dee, for not only teaching my granddaughter to dance but instilling in her confidence, poise, and a love of performing. You were always encouraging, upbeat, friendly, and welcoming to everyone. What I loved the most about you was your belief that dance is for “every body”, no matter your size, shape, or ability.

How lucky all the Volta students are to have had you touch their lives in your loving and enthusiastic way. You are missed beyond measure. God bless you. I am sure you are dancing with the angels.

Ann Riordan
Haley Riordan’s grandmother

Ann Riordan
June 30, 2026
On behalf of everyone at Mobile Music Interactive Entertainment, we extend our deepest condolences to Deborah’s family and loved ones.

Deborah (Dee Bee) was a cherished member of our Mobile Music family for the past six years. Her talent, kindness, energy, and beautiful spirit helped create unforgettable celebrations and brought smiles, laughter, and joy to countless people. Whether she was on the dance floor or behind the scenes, she had a special way of connecting with others and making every event brighter.

While words cannot ease the sadness of this loss, we are incredibly grateful for the time we shared with Deborah and for the lasting impact she made on our team and the many lives she touched. She will be deeply missed, fondly remembered, and forever remain a part of the Mobile Music family.

May her memory forever be a blessing, and may you find comfort in the love that surrounds you and in the countless beautiful memories she leaves behind.

With heartfelt sympathy,

Carey Smolensky and the Mobile Music Interactive Entertainment Family

Carey Smolensky
July 1, 2026
The few times I was in the company of Deborah, I experienced the joy she felt for life. I got a hug but didn't know her long enough to get a lick! Take your love and joy to your new world and be happy.

Gerry Becker
July 1, 2026
Vania,

It is with great sadness that I learned of the loss of your child. I am truly sorry for your loss. Please accept my heartfelt condolences during this incredibly difficult time. My thoughts are with you and your family, and I hope you find strength and comfort in the support of those around you.

Sincerely,
Mahvash Prellberg

Mahvash Prellberg
July 1, 2026
Vania, my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of great sorrow. While I cannot fully comprehend the depth of your pain or the emptiness you are feeling, I want you to know you are not alone

Luis Lazcano
July 1, 2026
Dee you are a beautiful soul and you brought a light to those around you. Thank you for being such a great friend to my son Keith. My granddaughter Victoria adored you. You will always have a piece of my heart. Wanda Bryant Salaam

Wanda Bryant
July 1, 2026
Te abrazo con todo mi cariño Vania, que Dios te de fortaleza y pronto encuentres la paz en tu corazón.

Clarisa Ortiz
July 1, 2026
Querida Vania:

Te mando un fuerte abrazo y te acompaño de corazón en estos momentos.

Dios contigo y toda tu familia.

Alejandro Blanchet
July 1, 2026
Querida Vania,

Siento mucho la pérdida de tu hija, te acompaño de corazón en este momento tan difícil, espero encuentres pronta resignación.

Alejandro Fierro R.
July 1, 2026
Dear Vania,
I was deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your daughter. I can’t imagine the pain you and your family are going through.
Please accept my heartfelt condolences. My thoughts are with you and your loved ones during this incredibly difficult time. Wishing you strength, comfort, and peace in the days ahead.

With sincere sympathy.

Ivette Fraire
July 1, 2026
Dear Vania
I want you to know that I am thinking of you. I understand how you must be feeling at this moment; the loss of a child is a immense pain.
I pray to God that He grants great strength to you and your family.
You are not alone in this. We support you and are here for whatever you need, now and in the days to come.
My deepest condolences.
Blanca Nelly Castro
CTR Scientific

Blanca Nelly Castro
July 1, 2026
I met Deborah a couple of years ago, when she came to Dubai, i remember her as a beauty wth brain.. Intelligent and charming young girl full of life . May her soul rest in peace May God give Vania and her family the strength to bear this tremendous loss

Rajshree Vijay Bhosale
July 2, 2026
Que a Déborah encontre a sua Paz e vocês, Vânia, André,Clara e Michael tenham o conforto em todas as boas lembranças de seu convívio com ela durante a vida. Um abraço carinhoso !

Maria Cecília Tarcinalli Bethiol
July 2, 2026
My daughters, Summer and Tierney, adored Ms. Dee and her pajama jam parties that she would throw on Friday nights. They looked forward to these nights with her all week and talked about how much fun they had for days.

Ms. Dee was such a strong community-builder. She created such a warm and inclusive environment. I felt that from the moment I walked into Volta Studios. We are sending your family so much strength and love. Dee was a remarkable woman and someone who gave herself to everyone around her. She will be dearly missed.

Jim Armstrong
July 3, 2026
I am so sorry for your sudden loss there are no words for this unimaginable tragedy. As a mother I can barely imagine the pain you are going through. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Your loss is deeply felt, and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Paola Mejia

Paola Mejia
July 3, 2026
Debbie was and always be an amazing human. She used go to the teen open mic I used to host. She use always used to dance when the bands played.

Tully Jack Bertorelli
July 4, 2026
To Ms.Dee n family
You don't know how we are going to miss her. I remember when she worked for dru she had Maria as a soloist, she was so happy to have Ms Dee as for teacher. Maria just loved being with you around you and everything I loved being with you. We had so much fun together in disney and everything. When you opened up your own business, we came to your studio and supported you. Even though we got in trouble but we didn't care. You mean the world to us! It is going to be so hard not to see your beautiful face. And you're beautiful post in comments.
I'm having a hard time writing this, but you were a beautiful soul. If I had a problem or my daughter had a problem. You are right there to help us. My son had the best time with you. I believe he had a small crush on you LOL i hope you're dancing. You're hard out up in heaven. I love you, I miss you. We will see each other again.
Love the Forest family
David Kris Maria and William.

Kris Forest
July 4, 2026
Ms. Dee taught all three of my daughters. Something other teachers were reluctant to do or didn't do well. My 2nd daughter has special needs. Many spoke down to her or had low expectations. She did neither. As a parent I felt lighter. I began to see what was possible if all teacher were like her. She inspired all 3 to be themselves and they all felt capable of dance and beauty. She left my other 2 daughters with a gift. Their sister was not to be asked less of or discussed due to her differences. They live this lesson each day. Though we did not stay in touch her name and the feeling connected to her came up often. How grateful we all are they she touched our lives. We send our love and condolences to all who loved her.

Sherry C
July 6, 2026
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July 7, 2026
I had the privilege to work with Dee at Mad Science years ago. She was an exceptional performer, in addition to being a fun teacher. Dee was also by nature just really kind and radiant. Dee shone like the star of love she was. I am so sad she is gone, but I am also so glad I got to experience her in this life. She was wonderful.

Laura Litman
July 7, 2026
Ninguém é só qualidade…
Todos carregamos defeitos, medos, inseguranças e cicatrizes. Mas existe uma beleza imensa em querer tentar ser melhor sem deixar de ser quem é.
E a sweet Deborah era assim, sendo quem queria ser com a sua Luz única de brilhar.

Tia Alice

Alice Batista
July 8, 2026
It was the night my baby sister was born. My dad had dropped me off at Vania’s and Andre’s so my parents could be at the hospital. I remember feeling a little out of place that night, even though I had been to their house many times to play with Deborah and Clara. Deborah and I were only a couple years apart so naturally we were closer. That night, I remember feeling unsure and uncertain of how things were going to be in my life now that my little sister was coming, and Deborah told me how it was actually pretty cool to have a little sister, even though Clara was too young to play with at the time, Deborah spoke about sisterhood in a loving manner, but that her makeup and clothes were hers and would not be sharing those anytime soon LOL. She made me feel excited about having my own sister and friend to share moments with. Deborah has always been her own person, ever since I can remember, being her unfettered, uniquely and unapologetic self. These are rare characteristics, especially in a society that many times insists on conformity. I hope we can all learn from her to stay true to ourselves, standing up for what we believe in, independent of what others may think. Thank you, Deborah for teaching and demonstrating what it looks like to be transparently genuine to yourself. Love you! We will miss you deeply!

Claire Manzano-Banks
July 10, 2026
My dearest Deborah,

You left so early. Or maybe, on
your own time.
The same as you lived your life
my beloved. Your way, on your
own time.

You always shined so bright!

To me you'll always be
a little girl that I love
as my own.
Like Alex and Bárbara are your mother's, you and Clara are mine.

Many families are not perfect.
Ours isn't for sure!
But we taught our kids
to love and care for all and family.
And you did. You care
for us, so much.

So, what can I say when a
piece of me will be missing,
but a piece of you will
always live inside me.

I believe in after life. Yes, I do!

So , enjoy grandma, grandpas
Carlito e João, give Gerhard a very tight hug for me. And keep shinning!

Te amo
Love you

To my sister Vânia, I
reach to you with my love.

Andre, Clara, Mike e Vania,
be sure to keep Debora alive,
telling Isadora about her aunt, how
strong, how beautiful
she was...

Thank you Dee, for showing us how life could be live,

Your forever Aunt Vanda

Vanda Bandelli
July 10, 2026
Déborah is a strong name. Sounds very strong. I already knew Déborah even before she was born, because Vânia talked a lot about that name for her first daughter. When Vânia was pregnant we knew Deborah was there. Nobody else could be in that space. And when Deborah arrived, she was really very celebrated. Déborah was an unique little person with her own thoughts and decisions, always with brights ideas. And Deborah grows up like that very brighting little girl. Illuminating not only her path where she passed but also clearing the path of other people. There are no perfect people in this world, but there are those who knows how to make this world move by doing a lot of good things and Déborah was one of those people. Wherever she went she moved, created and left her mark. Déborah came to schedule her stay here. Déborah is not a person from the past. She is in the past, present and future. She left her brand very ingrained in ours hearts . And it won’t to be forgotten. Deborah lived life with great intensity. I am very grateful to have had the opportunity to meet you Deborah. Beijos Tia Lucia

Lucia Manzano
July 11, 2026
Dear Cousin, Dé,

Receiving the news of your passing has made me reflect deeply over these past few days. It is so difficult to understand our journey in this world.

The only way I can describe your life is by comparing it to a METEOR. You'll understand why.

So natural, so radiant, and so extraordinary, you always drew attention with your brilliant light. Your passage may have been brief, but it will never go unnoticed.

You were like a meteor: intense, full of light, and able to transform the lives of everyone who had the privilege of knowing you. You lived with passion, spreading love through culture, dance, dedication, the nobility of your actions, and the gentle way you taught others. You helped build dreams, self-esteem, discipline, and confidence.

You never needed the spotlight or the stage, because your light always came from within.

Your light was genuine—the kind that warms hearts and remains even when our eyes can no longer see it.

Your unexpected passing has left a void beyond measure.

Yet the trail of your light continues to illuminate the sky and will forever live on in the memories, the love, and the longing of everyone who was fortunate enough to walk beside you. Ah... that is truly unforgettable!

Thank you for everything you were.

Your legacy will live on in every dance step, in every smile you inspired, and in every heart you touched.

Rest in peace. Your beautiful light will never, ever be forgotten.

And thank you for sharing with me the unforgettable legacy of being among the most mischievous, stubborn, rebellious, and deeply loved cousins in the world.

With all my love,

Tati

Tati Bandelli
July 11, 2026
Deborah you will be missed, I remember you as a beautiful little girl that turned into an amazing woman. No matter where you are at you always going to be a light on the lives of everyone that had the privilege of knowing you. Rest in peace beautiful!

Ana claudia De Azevedo
July 11, 2026
Aos pais e irmã da Deborah

Eu sei que hoje este deve estar sendo um dos dias mais difíceis de suas vidas. Que vocês consigam encontrar conforto nas palavras de Deus e tenham a certeza de todos os amigos da Deborah estarão de prontidão para para quando precisarem. Estou orando por vocês neste momento e desejando que suas dores sejam eventualmente diminuída. Com certeza ela já esta nos braços de Deus e que possa descansar em paz.
Um abraço afetuoso a todos.
Denise (mãe da Amanda Soffner)

Denise Bagaiolo
July 11, 2026
Dee was a special person in my life during a cherished period of time. Even though we have not connected in many years her passing has sent a nostalgic shockwave through myself and the community. Even in death she is giving unique life lessons. Thank you Dee for all of the beauty, inspiration, and joy you gave.

Chris Kay
July 11, 2026
Deborah vuela alto y cuida desde donde estes a tu mamá , tu hermana y tu sobrina. Serás la luz que ellas seguiran.
Eres un ser de Luz

Claudia Slebi
July 11, 2026